Thursday, March 22, 2007

A 3-week Hiatus

This blogsite is on a well-deserved break. For those who don't already know, we're back in sunny Singapura!

I'm enjoying bowl after bowl of steaming hot mee hoon kuay, slurping on delish ice-blended Coffee Bean concoctions and enjoying the company of family and friends.

I've had my durians.
I've had my soya bean milk.
I've had toast with kaya and butter at the neighbourhood coffee shop.
I've even had fried nian gao.

Life is good. Still, it could be better. That, will be instantly remedied once I get me smackeroos on some PRATA!

I can't believe I haven't had any yet. Darn that confounded stomach virus I came down with! BAH!

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

My Dream Red-Letter Day...


Another reason why we should encourage reading in children! :P

Wouldn't it be nice to receive 'Dear Mummy/or Daddy' letters padded with superlatives describing how great we are!?

A mummy can dream, can't she? :P

Monday, March 12, 2007

Something to SMILE about

taken 26 feb 2007

taken 12 Mar 2007

I'm grinning like a Cheshire cat. Dee too, if he could. Soon, soon!

His right face muscles responded a little today - he could blink a little faster & when he smiled, a faint crease appeared on his cheek! I know it won't be long before I see that big toothy grin I love & miss again!

Thank You, Lord!

Heal me, O LORD, and I will be healed; Save me and I will be saved, For You are my praise. (Jeremiah 17:14)

A Stake through my own Heart

I'm writing this entry for a friend who's tottering precariously on a tightrope of emotions. Ironically, this song WILL NOT make him feel better. In fact, I worry he may feel a little worse listening to it.

I'm writing it nevertheless because it's my way of telling him -

You're not alone, bud.

I cannot feel what you feel
but I'm trying to imagine the pain lodged in your heart

I know you feel nothing will dull the pain
But there is.
If only you would learn to commit your heart to Him.
And whilst you're moping and taking your time to reach out and hold His outstretched hand,
I'm here.
And I'll be here for a long time...



How can I just let you walk away,
just let you leave without a trace
When I stand here taking every breath with you, ooh
You're the only one who really knew me at all

How can you just walk away from me,
when all I can do is watch you leave
Cos we've shared the laughter and the pain,
and even shared the tears
You're the only one who really knew me at all

So take a look at me now,
'cos there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me,
just the memory of your face
Take a look at me now,
'cos there's just an empty space
And you coming back to me
is against all odds and that's what I've got to face

I wish I could just make you turn around,
turn around and see me cry
There's so much I need to say to you,
so many reasons why
You're the only one who really knew me at all

So take a look at me now,
'cos there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me,
just the memory of your face
Take a look at me now,
'cos there's just an empty space
But to wait for you,
well that's all I can do and that's what I've got to face
Take a good look at me now,
'cos I'll still be standing here
And you coming back to me is against all odds
That's the chance I've got to take, oh, oho

Just take a look at me now

Sunday, March 11, 2007

Saggs' Bookclub for Kids

I've never been one to frequent libraries in Singapore. I wish I was a more avid reader, but I'm not. On my night stand are books I've bought & plan to read, but mostly it's piled with stacks of ES mags that come free with every Friday's Evening Standard.

Oooh I just can't help myself, I need tabloid trash from somewhere!

Since moving here, I've had no choice but to resuscitate my (practically) non-existent love affair with libraries and books. And revive they have. Libraries are perfect defillabrators because they are such a good resource for entertainment/education.

It's helped that our local library - with its friendly librarians, Story Times and well-stocked shelves - made it easy for me to get 'into the groove'. But the clincher - none of 'em grimy, grotty books we find so often in public libraries! YAY!

Reading to Danielle has also helped ignite my passion for the activity (golly, that sounds so 'formal'?). Even though the majority of books I read now are for 2YOs & onwards, they are immensely enjoyable. The innocence that resonates from each page reminds me of my childhood. I remember days where I'd curl up in a chair and devour page after page of Enid Blyton, Judy Blume and Roald Dahl... I wonder where my tenaciousness to finish a book from cover to cover went? Must've been lost in transition.

Anyway... back to the library. I've found solace within its walls. And thankfully, Danielle seems to enjoy her time there too. We pick out new books, she mingles with other children, and chats up the librarians.

OH YES SHE DOES.

At 2!

Especially with that young chap with a mohawk. Oh help.

Indeed, libraries are gold mines waiting to be tapped, and we're blessed that our life here allows us to be immersed in books for hours and hours.

I've been here for almost 9 months and already we've gone through over a hundred different books. And from the hundreds, I've managed to sift out some good childrens' authors from, perhaps, the mediocre. Through our reading sessions, I've found out which books keep us both engrossed.

It is through our personal experience (experiences? oh, I can never get these right!) that I'd like to share our list of great childrens' authors:

Our Top 10 Great Childrens' Authors:
1. Julia Donaldson
2. Eric Carle
3. Ian Whybrow
4. Marc Brown
5. Lucy Cousins
6. Mick Inpen
7. Jane Hissey
8. David Wojtowycz
9. Nick Butterworth
10. Jean & Gareth Adamson

Although they've been placed in random order, I'd have to say Julia Donaldson is our favourite author at the moment. Her writing style and storylines are simply delightful.

And our favourite book by her is Sharing A Shell. Coincidentally, a song based on the story was composed specially for World Book Day 2007. Watch Julia and her husband perform the charming ditty here.

Danielle not only makes me play the song on the computer EVERYDAY, it's also her most requested bedtime lullaby. So yes, I've had to learn to sing it. If anyone cares for a performance when I'm back in SGP, let me know! Kekeke.

There are lots of other great childrens' authors (David McKee, Enid Blyton, Dr Suess et al) but I've left them out of our list since I haven't introduced their titles to Danielle yet.

If at anytime you decide to check out our recommendations, do share your views on the authors/books ok? But I hope the books will bring you & your child/children hours of pleasurable entertainment, in the same way they've brought Danielle and me!

Here's to many more days of reading, singing & FUN while you're at it! :)













Thursday, March 08, 2007

Love 'im, Hate 'im

frustrating as an itch on your back you can't get to
irritating as a Newton hawkercentre tout
grating as nails scraping down a blackboard
irk-some as Steven Lim (ok, maybe Steven's worse)

Some love to hate him, others hate to love him. Whatever your view is, there will only be one David Caruso, only one inimitable Horatio Caine...

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My first encounter with Horatio was an accidental one. I'd recently become addicted to CSI (Las Vegas) and when the Miami series began on Ch 5, I thought, 'what the heck', it can't stray that far from the original.

Maaaan, was I wrong!

With his gek ji der say 'sauve' swagger, the irritating way he puts his shades on, the perpectual nasal tone, and his infamous, skin-crawling one-liners - Horatio soon became 'TV Enemy No.1' in my books.

But the irony is, the more repugnant he was, the more glued I was to the excruciating series. I HAD to watch him to pass my snide remarks or snigger at every, single episode.

Just why are his lines so tacky? Why does he wear his sunnies even when he's indoors? Why does he act like he's People Magazine's Sexiest Man Alive? Why David Caruso? Why Why Why?!

And now thanks to Mel, I can now share my irks with y'all. Enjoy tearing your hair out! Hohoho.

*Thanks for sending the videos, Mel. They sure 'made my day'. *gag*

Wednesday, March 07, 2007

The Village & THAT Assembly of Stones

Danielle braving the strong winds!

Our Bath escapade continued...

Day 3, Sun 4 March:
Ah, You mean that's it?

We woke up to the gentle pitter patter of rain outside our window. Alas, we were not to enjoy an extension of yesterday's wonderful weather. But no matter, a little rain was NOT going to dampen our holiday spirits! Whooo-wheee!

After a quick breakfast, we set off for the nearby Methodist church, hoping to catch the service. However, we were too early so in the end, decided to give it a miss. But not before saying a prayer to hopefully 'absolve' ourselves of the guilt. Sheesh.

Having seen most of Bath, we decided to make the most of the rented car by driving to nearby towns/villages. Not wanting to pack in too tight a schedule, we kept it to 2 locations: Stonehenge and Lacock Village.

But this time, we made sure we got directions first before setting off. Driving was smooth-sailing after, and we made it to Lacock without a hitch in 1/2 hr.

Lacock is a tiny village north of Bath. It's so small it doesn't make the 'must-see' list with most visitors. I was wooed by its 'uniquely preserved country village' description on the brochure but more so by the BOLD print that read: Location for films - Harry Potter, Pride & Prejudice, Moll Flanders and Emma. That made ALL the difference and I cajoled Dee into driving there for a looksy.

As we meandered through the windy roads, I slipped into a reverie- of long, lazy walks on the vast grounds at 'Pemberley', gazing upon the pond where Colin Firth stripped and took a dip, unending meadows and genteel ladies carrying pretty parasols.

But Lacock was NOT the location for those scenes. Darnations! No Pemberley? No Netherfields? No pond with half-naked Colin Firth? Oh woe to me! (actually, my indignation's more on Queen Lovie's behalf. Hoho!)

That visit to Lacock, though futile in its 'filmed-on-location' offerings, was not entirely wasted. Visiting the village was like a 'blast from the past'; as if Time had stood still in the 13th century. The shops and houses were left virtually untouched by modernization. We browsed in quaint corner shops, inns and the Townhall - all very charming...

Next stop, Stonehenge.

It was pouring by the time we got to the site. We'd taken a 1.5hr drive from Lacock and were thankfully not lost due to the excellent directions given by Rose's husband. But it was NOT a good day to visit the stones, not that we'd have stayed long anyway. We stared at the monument for 5 minutes, got bored, and headed back to the car. I think the heavy downpour must've dulled our excitement. Besides, the traffic zipping past the prehistoric site at 100km/h was all too strange. The monument is located next to a highway, see.

And I must be helluva uncultured because all I saw was a bunch of rocks. No 'ooh-ing' or 'ahh-ing' from this girl. Nosiree. I couldn't believe we drove ALL THE WAY to see a bleedin' rock formation!

But I guess we can now say 'Been there, Done that', and...'Good Riddance'! Once is enough!

sian ji puah at Stonehenge

On the whole, the trip was still wonderful. Made even more so by the fact that it was spontaneous. But best of all, the 3 of us were together and we had fun! Now what can top that, eh?

Tuesday, March 06, 2007

Gather Ye Rosebuds While Ye May

I love this phrase taken from Robert Herrick's To the Virgins, to Make Much of Time.

Isn't that what Life's about sometimes? Taking chances, making spur-of-the-moment decisions, initiating impromptu actions, or as the Latins put it - Carpe Diem! Seize the Day! (more accurately translated, 'pluck the day').

This weekend saw one such moment.

Consumed by wanderlust, Dee decided the family should go on a minibreak, a roadtrip of sorts. Our destination of choice - BATH.

Here's a breakdown of what we did over the 3D/2N trip:

Day 1, Fri 2 March: Never do things improviso!
An irony since I did say it was a 'spur-of-the-moment' decision, didn't I? :P

We rented a small car, threw in some clothes, diapers & toddler supplies into a haversack (but not without leaving Danielle's toothbrush, our toothpaste & raw meat thawing in the microwave!! Arrghh!) and headed to the car pickup point @ Norbury. Without finding out exactly how we should get to Bath, we hit the road. Daredevils we are! And as expected, we got IMPOSSIBLY lost! Wasted precious time going back & forth on the highway (M3, M25, M4???!) and taking innumerable wrong turns. We finally made it to Bath by nightfall, after 6 hours of silly detours. Checked into a B&B (my 1st B&B experiece! Hoorah!) and went in search for dinner. Unfortunately, all the food outlets near Braemar Guest House were closed. In the end, we had to pop into a Co-Op Supermarket to buy instant noodles, ham & a can of Dr Pepper. Oh, did I fail to mention we got lost within Bath too?

Our luv-erly dinner spread!
Tip of the Day:
On a roadtrip with the Chans - take Dee (coz he's a driver) & perhaps the 2YO (only if you enjoy listening to 'Ba-Ba Black Sheep' sung continuously throughout the journey), but lose the severely 'navigation-impaired' one! That, would be me.

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Day 2, Sat 3 March:
First breathtaking then breathless...
We suffered a night of interrupted sleep - no thanks to Danielle whose diaper not only leaked slightly onto the bed, but who changed sleeping positions 589,203,031 times a night! Bah!

Outside, the weather was perfect! Just what we needed - a clear blue sky, cool breeze and lots of sunshine! We tucked into a hearty breakfast prepared by Gillian, our B&B proprietress. It was a quintessential English breakfast consisting of sausages, eggs, toast... la-dee-da... Danielle made friends with 2 friendly American ladies over cereal. They turned out to be nurses and could instantly tell Dee had Bell's Palsy. They told him to be patient as 'it could take months' to recover.

Poor Dee, he's taken to holding a conversation with a hand over his mouth...

Danielle & the Americans

We'd decided only the night before that we'd stay one extra night in Bath. But Gillian was fully booked for the weekend so she directed us to her friend Rose's B&B, Milton House, which was a few houses down from hers. So after breakfast, we moved over to Rose's and registered ourselves for another night.

After settling our accomodation, we finally set off to explore Bath.

Simply put, Bath is a very pretty town. It's not as grey and definitely less polluted than London. Its buildings bear a tinge of custard yellow and under the sunlight, the whole town seems to shimmer like gold when seen from a distance. Our camera couldn't capture the vibrant colour as we saw it but I hope you get an idea...

Some of the must-see(s) in Bath would definitely be the Roman Baths and Bath Abbey. Dee said he had a new-found respect for the Romans after visiting that World Heritage Site. Indeed, there is much to marvel about regarding these Baths. The Romans' prowess in architecture and their ingenious system of heating rooms (modern day suanas) and baths, are truly awe-inspiring. Even their bathing rituals bear a strong resemblence to today's Japanese Onsens (温泉) and Taiwan's notorious 三溫暖. Just sans the seediness, I hope?

We spent over 2 hours at the Roman Baths and whilst Dee busied himself listening to the audio aid, Danielle hollered at a half-naked male mannequin, imploring it to 'turn round and look at' her. I explained that 'he' was about to take his bath. She muttered 'shame, shame' (for his lack of decency) before dismissing him for his impertinence.

Danielle having a mini picnic by the Roman Bath, completely oblivious she's at a World Heritage site. Thank goodness she goes in for free!

Our next stop was Bath Abbey. All Abbeys look similar to each other - rose tainted windows, ornate cornices, beautiful carved ceilings. But what made this visit different was the wind orchestra performance we were fortunate to catch. For a good half hour, we were treated to music from the Renaissance and medieval periods played on rauschpfeifes and recorders.

Nice music was followed by a nice tea. We visited Bath's oldest house and residence of Bath's most famous baker, Sally Lunn. We tried the much-raved about Sally Lunn's Bun and loved it. I had mine with Tiptree Strawberry Jam and loads of clotted cream (but of course!). Dee had his with homemade brandy butter. Honestly, the bun tasted like the 70cents toasted bread we find in our neighbourhood coffeeshops. But it was good...Perhaps that's why Dee and I enjoyed it so much. A slice of Singapore in Bath!

Our next stop was very much for Skiver A's benefit - The Jane Austen Centre. I tingled with excitement when I sighted Colin Firth's handsome mug at the shop window. We didn't visit the Museum since we had to pay an entrance fee so settled with browsing in the shop. It was filled with all sorts of Jane Austen paraphernalia and souvenirs I had a hard time picking out something for ma Queen Lovie. But in the end, I did. Here are some pictorial souvenirs anyway:

Not quite Darcy, more like Mr Collins? Gag.

We ended off the day with some activities for Danielle. We reckoned she'd been 'gracious' to follow us to 'kid-yawning' places so it was time she had some fun. We'd brought some bread nicked from breakfast and told her she could feed the swans with them.

We didn't find any swans at the Royal Victoria Park, so settled for feeding just de ducks.

Ducks, come here!

After, we went to the nearby playground where she had fun on the swings, slides and 2 rides on the Merry-Go-Round. She had a blast and so did we, just watching her!

We finally headed back to the B&B at 5ish pm. Convinced Dee we should walk back instead of take a bus. In the end, I paid for that decision with my thighs! Our B&B was located on a hill so it was a long, arduous climb back to the top. I took in short breaths at a time in a bid to pace myself better. Was darn proud I didn't give in to the posterior pain. I prammed Danielle all the way up the winding path! *pat on back*

Hellish uphill climb!

Dinner was at a newly-opened Indian restaurant just round the corner from our B&B. It's funny how we're trying Indian cuisine in Bath when there are a dime a dozen Indian eateries in London! The food was palatable and I had myself a 'paratha'! Methinks I still like the ones back home waaaaay better.

It's late now and as usual, I've rambled on for too long. Day 3 in another posting. Misadventures at Stonehenge!

Goodnight! or Good Morning!

Monday, March 05, 2007

Real & Reel

Boo!

Thursday, March 01, 2007

1st (s)

Hi Sylvia,
...I wanted to ask you is whether you would like to join me for the wedding dress search on Thursday. Unfortunately the only timeslot I got was 11:00. This is nursery time for Danielle, isn´t it? I would love you to come with me and give me advice. How does that sound? Do you think it would be a disaster if Danielle skipped nursery on Thursday?
It will fabulous for Danielle to see all those beautiful dresses and you will probably be freaking out!

The store which is the Pronovia Flagship Store is in New Bond Street close to Oxford Street...


Love,
Silke and coughing Nelson

So off we went - 2 Mummies with kids in tow, in search of that perfect bridal gown for Silke's upcoming nuptials in July.

Today's outing was laced with bouts of nostalgia and surrealism. I mean, I've done bridal shop visits on occasion with my sis, and Mich. I did the whole 'flip-through bridal magazines' thingamajig with Mel, and perhaps, B?? But never for the life of me did I think I'd EVER step into a bridal boutique in London. No Way. Not in a million years.

But there I was - flipping through the Pronovias* catalog with Silke, giving nods and nays when she pointed out possible gowns, gasping when she tried some of them on. And of course, helping her snap photos in the gowns, steathily.

It was lovely doing girly things with a girlfriend. And for one, brief moment, it felt... almost like home?

* coincidentally, did you visit this shop too, Mabes?

On other firsts, Danielle had her 1st 珍珠奶茶. We sauntered to Leicester Square with Silke & Nelson and I soooo wanted to introduce bubble tea to them that I decided to throw caution to the wind and pay S$21 for 2 cups of authentic Taiwanese pao pao cha! Yes, you 'read' me right -- 21 friggin SGD. *coma*

Well, it's too late for regrets now. The QQ chewy pearls have been wolfed down, ice-blended strawberry milk tea quaffed by 'la (unstoppable) femmes'. That would be me and Danielle, merci beaucoup.

Silke was surprisingly quite adventurous with her choice of flavour. Especially since this was her first bubble tea experience. She chose a sesame milk tea with pearl. And they both loved it! In fact, she loved it so much she bought herself another cup on the way back!

My last 1st (hoho, an oxymoron!) for today -- looking at Dee & thanking God that despite his condition, I have more time with him. Oh don't get me wrong, I still pray for healing. But this extra time together? It's nice.